Where to meet girls
You can meet a girl and get into a fun conversation in a grocery store
Many guys complain that they don’t know where to meet girls. If you fit into this category, then this page is for you. Why? Because I’m about to show you the light my friends.
Here’s the truth: almost everyplace you visit on a regular basis is a great place to meet a girl!
The reason why many guys complain about not being able to meet a girl at there regular hangouts, isn’t that available girls aren’t there. The reason is that they are not really looking, not really trying, not making themselves available, and not staying aware. Those last two points are key. You need to make yourself available and aware when you’re at one of your regular hangouts. That means you need to stop talking on your cellphone when you’re at the grocery store, take frequent breaks from reading when you’re at your local coffee shop, and stop listening to your iPod or playing video games while you’re waiting in line.
With that said, here’s a list of excellent places where you’re sure to meet plenty of girls if you’re willing to make yourself available and aware.
Note: You’ll notice that I didn’t list bars or clubs. The reason is simple. Most girls at bars and clubs fall into two categories, either they are extremely defensive because they’re afraid of meeting a “player” or they are *ahem* skanks.
- Coffee Shops
This is by far, my favorite place to meet girls because it is so easy. Most people go to coffee shops to be sociable - yes even the girl that is sitting by herself quietly reading her book. Think about it. If she wanted to be alone to read, she could read in the privacy of her home or go to library. Why then did she choose a noisy coffee shop? Because she want to be sociable. In fact, she’s probably like you hoping she will run into someone she can date. Coffee shops are the new bars of the 21st century!
The Book Store
Like the coffee shop this is an excellent place to meet girls. Here you’ll find many girls hanging out and reading books and magazines. Again, if they wanted to be alone they would read at home. Many girls at book stores want to be sociable. The best thing about meeting a girl here is that there are plenty of things to talk about - the new releases, the latest issue of a magazine, or the book she’s holding! Big book stores, like Borders or Barnes & Noble, have coffee shops within the stores - double bonus!
The Library
Similar to book stores, libraries - specifically college libraries - are a great place to meet girls. If you’re in college and looking for a date, make it a point to study in at your college library and not your dorm room. Not only do college libraries have all the benefits of a book store, they have more hot college chicks!
Grocery Stores
Nothing says lovin’ like something from the oven… Okay, that was lame but a grocery store is a good place to meet a girl. Single people have to eat like everyone else. The next time you’re shopping for groceries be on the lookout for a girl that looks single - single serving meals in her basket, isn’t buying condoms, and isn’t buying a case of beer (if she has a case of beer or condoms, it probably means she has boyfriend).
Clothing Stores
If they have a female section, your favorite clothing store is a great place to meet girls. Most girls like to shop; hey, stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason. When you’re shopping for yourself, ask the cute store employee or a girl walking by which color shirt looks best on you. You can also walk into the female section and look for a present for your sister or a friend. When you do, ask a girl what are the latest styles.
The Park
Many girls love the outdoors, especially during Spring and Summer. You’ll find plenty of girls walking, running, and laying out and reading. The list is almost endless. Chances are if a girl is by herself in a park on a nice, sunny day she’s single. If she wasn’t, she would most likely have her boyfriend with her.
There you have it, a list of great places to meet girls. It probably seems obvious to you but it’s been my experience that most guys overlook the obvious because they don’t make themselves available and aware of there surroundings. Visit my “How to start a conversation” section for easy tips on how to begin talking to girls you meet in the above locations.
Do you have any questions? Have I overlooked something? Have a success story to share? Leave a comment and help other guys in similar situations!
Shy to Talk, a fan of AdviceOnGirls.com
Daniel
13. Aug, 2007
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Michael
14. Aug, 2007
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How To Run A Coffee Shop
15. Sep, 2007
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Nina Moric
13. Dec, 2007
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BrianJ
20. Jan, 2008
Hey Bro… I agree with the places you’ve listed to meet chicks… EXCEPT for bars and clubs comment. I’m not sure what part of the country you are in… but I live in So Cal…
Bars during the day around Pacific Beach through Mission Bay are absolutely fantastic places to meet college girls or chicks on “break” hangin’ out shooting pool. Cains, The Wave House, Lahaina’s… Nick’s at the Beach, The Sandbar… and all along the boardwalk…
For learning how to approach chicks, bars and clubs are invaluable. As far as them being afraid of being picked up by a player… that’s a lame excuse. What about picking up chicks at the beach? Most of them are wearing dental floss… and they love to chat it up with dudes. Are they afraid of being hit on by a player? Exactly…
Just because a chick turns you down at the club and leaves with a guy who is more of an Alpha Male than you doesn’t make her a skank. So what if there are chicks there who are a little loose with their morals… you’re not their to judge them… Are you telling me that you wouldn’t have sex with the top 100 hottest women on the planet? If you say “No” I’m calling BS on you. Would that make you a skank by your definition?
Your goal should be to have fun. If you’re having fun, it will become contageous and everyone else will want to join you… and I can guarantee you’d be more than happy to have those “skanks” as you call them hanging all over you and ready to go home with you at the end of the night.
All you have to do is stand up, grab your balls and be a man.
-B-
Michael
20. Jan, 2008
@ Brian J
Then go ahead and call BS… but you would be wrong.
Clearly you are entitled to your own opinion but in my case, and the case of most of my friends, the comments about bars and clubs has been proven true. Now is it true 100% of the time? Of course not.
But I’m always glad to have a varying opinion visit the site. The more opinions that are given, the more our readers learn and can make the decision for themselves.
Thanks for the comment!
ethan
09. Jun, 2008
brian= douche-fagta?ti
Michael
10. Jun, 2008
Thanks Ethan,
But the sad truth is that people like Brian can’t stand it when people choose to live a (dare I say it) more moral lifestyle. I can honestly say that I wouldn’t sleep with the Top 100 women.
That isn’t BS.
Nina Moric
18. Jun, 2008
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Nina Moric
18. Jun, 2008
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Nina Moric
19. Jun, 2008
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Nina Moric
19. Jun, 2008
Hi…I Googled for flirting tips, but found your page about dvice on Girls…and have to say thanks. nice read.
Nina Moric
19. Jun, 2008
Hi there…I found your site via Yahoo! when i was searching for flirting tips, and this post regarding dvice on Girls really sounds very interesting to me.. Thanks.
Michael
22. Jun, 2008
@ Nina
Thanks for the nice things you said. I’m glad you enjoyed reading it.
devin
22. Sep, 2008
ok so look my problem isnt that im afraid of “talking” to girls but that when i do i just cant find the right words..i end up blabbing out something stupid…then i look like an idiot and i just turn around and walk away…like im a silver tounge basterd….but when i first sstart talking to them just nothing ever turns out good…o yea and i also have a problem with the “your like a brother to me” part
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12. Nov, 2008
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07. May, 2009
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semo
11. Dec, 2009
aghh there is that book calls ”magical tactics” its with money nd it sounds good i dont know ,but i whan to know if its good or not ,becous im not ready to pay for some girls tips ,but i cant find some good tactics anywhers to attract girls !?!?!? any ideas ppls thx