Advice on Girls

How to start a conversation

The first step is to act quickly
When you see a girl that interests you, act quickly. Go right up to her and start a conversation. Never stall. Stalling will cause you to either psych yourself out or cause you to miss an opportunity (she’ll leave before you work up the courage to approach her). Worse yet, a lot of guys stall and never find the courage to talk to the girl. If you find yourself in this situation it’s time to be a man and walk right up to the girl and start talking. Trust me, you can do it!

How to start a conversation with a girl like this

Observe her and the surroundings
As you walk up to the girl start observing her (what’s she’s wearing, holding, doing and how she looks). Also, observe the immediate surroundings (are you in a book store, coffee shop, park). The more you observe, the more subjects you have to talk about. The more you have to talk about, the greater the chance she will like you. So pay close attention to your surroundings and hers.

Note: Never, ever use pickup lines! Girls don’t find them clever and they make you look desperate. In a conversation, girls look for authenticity – for something real. Pickup lines come off as anything but real.

Talking props
You know what a stage prop is right? It’s an object (furniture, books, plants, etc.) that help the audience know exactly where the scene takes place. The actors interact with these props. Talking props are objects that help you interact with the girls you meet. For instance, that book she’s holding is a talking prop – tell her it looks interesting and ask her what it’s about. Talking props are also objects you posses. An example is your dog, a great prop. If you’re out walking your dog in a park, especially if it’s a puppy, many girls stop to look at it – an excellent conversation starter!

Always ask open-ended questions
This is the key to keeping a conversation flowing. Nothing kills a conversation fast than asking a yes or no question. Here are some examples of bad yes or no questions: Did you like the new Harry Potter movie? Is that a good book? Do you like dogs? These question can all be answered with a simple yes or no which causes the conversation to not flow naturally.

Here are some examples of better questions: What did you like about the new Harry Potter movie? That book looks interesting; why are you reading it? What’s your favorite thing about dogs?

See the difference? Those questions cause the girl to give a more thoughtful response, which leads to more talking, than simple yes or no questions.

Sample Conversation Starters

At The Coffee Shop

At The Book Store
Suppose there’s a pretty girls standing next to computer book section (yes, it does happen!). You notice she’s holding a book on image editing techniques. Go up to her and say, “I hear that’s a good book. What are you looking to edit?”

At The Library
You see a girl studying an American literary history book. Say to her, “Hey I’m thinking about taking that class. My friend said it’s good but tough. What’s your opinion?”

At The Grocery Store
You see a girl buying a frozen meal that you like. Walk by her and say, “I love those! I make sure to fix steamed carrots whenever I eat them. What dish do you like to fix with it?”

At The Clothing Store
Suppose you see an interesting girl while your shopping. Pick up two different color shirts and ask her which color shirt she thinks looks best on you and why. You can also use the old, “I’m looking for a gift for my female friend’s birthday but I don’t know jack about women’s clothes. Do you think you can help me pick something out?” If she works at the store, she’ll almost always say yes.

At The Park
Let’s say you see a girl about to hike or done hiking one of the trails. Go up to her and say, “You know, I like this trail. It’s very pretty this time of year. What’s your favorite time of year to hike this trail?”

Note: Again, never use pickup lines!

Do you have questions, comments, success stories, or your own suggestions? Please share them by commenting below!

1,572 Responses to “How to start a conversation”

christian

24. Jun, 2009

I finally talked to her today and i asked her if she wanted to hang out by the pool later this evening when no one would be around. She said maybe because she doesnt know what she was doing tonight. She complimented me on my clothing and we talked for a bit. I then had to go after about 5 minutes of talking so i am hoping to see her at 7:00! Thanks again Michael!!!!
Jai s

24. Jun, 2009

hey, good article
Well, there’s a girl at school, i dont talk to her, but i kind of like her. She is in the “popular” group, im not very popular but im not a loser. I think girls at my school think im atractive but i dont know how to start talking to her, any advice?
thanks
Michael

24. Jun, 2009

@ NeedsHelpWithGirls
I’m glad Kennedy’s advice helped! That’s why we created the AoG community.
Michael

24. Jun, 2009

@ Christian
Glad we could help. Let us know how it goes!
Michael

24. Jun, 2009

@ Jais
One of the keys to starting a conversation is to find things you have in common with the girl. Find out what she likes or what hobbies or sports she’s into. Learn as much as you can about her interests and then just ask her about them. That’s always a good place to start.
Good luck!
christian

24. Jun, 2009

Hey Michael! i finally talked to them today but had to leave after maybe a couple minutes of talking. I asked her if she wanted to meet later by the pool around 7:00-8:00and she said maybe she wasn’t sure if she had plans tonight. I think that usually maybe means no but she complimented me on what I was wearing so I thought that well maybe she actually has plans then. She ended up not showing after I waited for an hour so I’m not sure if she had plans last night or not so what should I do when I see her tomorrow? Act like nothing happened or confront her?
Michael

24. Jun, 2009

@ Christian
I’m sorry man. We’ve all had it happen to us at one time or another so don’t get down on yourself.
The best thing to do is to be cool about it. Don’t confront her about it but don’t avoid her. If you happen to see her, just be friendly and act like everything is cool. Then, in a nonchalant way, just mention that you’re sorry she wasn’t able to come by the pool last night because it was a lot of fun. Smile the whole time and play it cool. Who knows, she might be intrigued by the way you act and want to meet up with you again. But let her start that part of the conversation.
christian

24. Jun, 2009

Also, Michael here is my email i would appreciate if you would email me because i want to explain the conversation i had with her please email me at [edit]. i think i might have screwed up with something that is kinda personel that i dont really want to share on this forum….
Michael

24. Jun, 2009

@ Christian
Whoa man. Pro tip, don’t leave your personal email address in the comments area. You’re just asking for someone to abuse it.
If you want to get further into details, use the “Got a Question” link at the very top of the site. It might take a few days to get an answer but that’s because we give priority to the public comments section.
christian

24. Jun, 2009

srry i just am pretty down right now and need some really good advice. i am not really thinking clear right now. i guess i can just put it on here but please no one judge me for this i am never like this. i just have never felt so much pressure because this girl seems so perfect. well here it goes

sorry for not putting in caps and typing properly just want to get this done as fast as possible so we can talk longer and i dont feel like taking the time just because im really down about today. i waited all day for them to be seperated from their parents. they finally did and i just started freaking out and i had plans to leave at 1:30 and it was like 1:15. i was really scared and just went up to the two girls and talked to the one i was most interested and this is what i said.

“hey excuse me sorro for bothering you. im leaving soon and just really wanted to get to know you im christian and i just wanted to say hi.”

they said they liked my shades which were my sunglasses. i then said

“yeah thanks. sorry this is really out of the blue i was wondering if you wanted to meet me in the pool at around 7:00 and i would be ther until 8:00.”

she said maybe i dont know if we have plans tonight. i said

“oh thats fine just come if you can”

she said ok. i then said

“alright ill see you later” *and my voice cracked right here i was so nervous*

and she waved by to me and i left. i didnt even get her name and i feel like a complete idiot and they probly think im one. it was so random and i did this at the worse possible moment ever. do you think i should go up to her tomorow and just say something like this

wow im a complete idiot that was just stupid of me to do that and that i am really not like someone like that. i didnt even get your name because i was so nervous. i was trying to get the courage up all day because you seem like someone to good for me. and just if you could give me another chance at making a proper way to hang out and i will not be a fool.
Michael

25. Jun, 2009

@ Christian
You just need to relax and take it easy on yourself. There’s no need to apologize to the girl. You didn’t do anything wrong and you certainly didn’t offend her in any way. So just take a breathe and relax.
Listen man, you did really good for your first time. That’s the honest truth. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Most guys would have been to scared to say anything. But you had the guts to go up and talk with her. That’s a really brave thing to do.
And no, you didn’t look like an idiot. The only reason you think that is because, again, you’re being too hard on yourself. Relax my man. The best thing for you to do is follow my previous advice above. Don’t avoid her but don’t track her down and apologize – again because you’ve done nothing wrong. If you do see her again, just remain calm and friendly.
The good news is that you’ve made a fantastic step in the right direction. From now on, you know that you have the courage to talk to girls. Never forget that you are able to do this. Like all things, it has a learning curve. But the more you do this, the better you’ll become. And yes, you will meet another girl who be much more attractive than this girl. Trust me on that.
You did good Christian. You should pat yourself on the back!
HelpIsMyOxygen

26. Jun, 2009

Hi,
There’s this girl who go’s to my school, she’s 15 and I’m 14, and she is the most pretty girl I’ve ever met in person, and I’ve met celebrities. She also has a great personality and is empathetic to others. She also has these amazing blue eyes that- wait where was I? Oh yeah, whenever I’m around her, I can’t help but talk about stupid things like grades and weather and other things she’s not interested in at all. I try to keep cool but I melt when I look into her eyes, or her teeth, or even her feet, everything about her is beautiful. She probably thinks I’m some kind of loser. How do I fix my rep with her and become able to talk to her better? I have an ASD and AD/HD, which makes it especially hard. I don’t feel insecure about my looks at all, because I’m athletic and on the football team and A bunch of other girls compliment me. I’ve known her for two years. If you do anything, please give advice, because I could imagine marrying this girl. I’ve dated before but I’ve never felt this way about a girl before.
want to get girls

27. Jun, 2009

hey i have a problem. My friends and me go up to the mall but i have no clue on how to start talking to girls. Like i know girls are attractive to me cause i get that look. But man i dont know what to do. Ill say something like “hey my name is want” and that all i can think of while were in the mall. Im realy getting hounded on the fact that i cant talk to girls. It doesnt matter really if i get rejected just the fact if i can hold a convo with them. Im 17 and i just really want some tips on what to say/ do when i see a pretty girl. I feel so down because i cannot talk to random girls.
Michael

27. Jun, 2009

Hi,
i dont know how to say this so here it goes. im a dialysis patient that likes his nurse, i mean realy like her. i have talked to her but not realy talk to her. its hard for me i have low selfesteem and 25 years and havent goten myself a girlfriend my self, my friend would hook me up with blind dates that didnt go well. i know the first thing first is being there friend but its hard cause i only see her 2x a week if lucky 3. and with the dialysis sitchuation its hard because there is times that i can only observe her and not talking to her cause she is working in another pod how can i get her to come to me since i cant come to her, im hooked up to a machine, i also know that i need to get to know her but how do i do that w/o being to personal or anoying, i wish it was eaiser for me please help me or e-mail i can use some advise, i never been good with the ladies and im not a jerk and somtimes i think because im too sencitive for a male i realy dontknow
sincerealy
Michael
imsad

27. Jun, 2009

are we supposed to shake hands with the girl when we introduce ourselves? (like when i say, hi, i’m _________) and do u know any websites or anything that have full conversations typed out between a guy and a girl that have met for the first time? cuz, i’m really nervous and i don’t want to sound like an idiot or have an awkward silence to occur when i’m talking with the girl. and also, what do you do if the girl is with a bunch her friends, but she doesn’t part with them/leave the group?
Michael

30. Jun, 2009

@ Help Is My Oxygen
Whoa, settle down man. I know you like this girl but you’re only 14. So try to get your emotions under control. Yes, she is beautiful but don’t start preparing for marriage just yet.
My advice to you is to prepare for the next time you’ll see her. The more prepared you are, the less likely you’ll wander off in you conversation about something really dull – like the weather.
To prepare, just find out some of her hobbies and learn all you can about them by Googling them. Try that.
Best of luck!
Michael

30. Jun, 2009

@ Want To Get Girls
Don’t get too down my man. Most guys struggle with the same problem at some point in their life. The good news is that you’re willing to do what it takes to overcome this obstacle.
A great technique to use in a mall setting is the “prop” technique mentioned in the post above. The mall is full of props you can talk about. Just ask the girls questions like, “So what are you and your friends shopping for?” “Would you mind helping me pick out a cool outfit?” “Did you see that crazy looking guy by the escalators?!” “Is it just me, or do those people who ask you to take surveys get on your nerves too?”
The key is to make the conversation fun. You can always invite them to the arcade if your mall has one. If done right, arcades are almost always a great time.
It’s time for you to get creative. Truly look at your surroundings and you’ll come up with some creative conversation starters.
Good luck!
Michael

30. Jun, 2009

@ Michael
I’m not going to sugar-coat this, your situation is very challenging. She’s a nurse and you’re a patient. Be aware that the hospital might have a policy that doesn’t allow nurses to date patients. If she does, she could get fired. Also keep in mind, that if the hospital does allow nurses to date patients, many nurses might not want to date patients out of respect to their profession.
Now, with that said, you can try asking the nurse that is attending to you about the woman you like. Just be honest with your nurse and tell her, “Hey, I don’t want to put you on the spot but I think that nurse “so-and-so” is really cute. Do you think you can do a favor for me and find out if she’d be willing to let me take her out to dinner? Or, if she prefers, we can grab a cup of coffee in the hospital cafeteria on her break. Would you mind finding out for me?”
It’s simple and straightforward but you’ll definitely find out if you should pursue this crush or if you should move on to greener pastures.
Good luck man!
Michael

30. Jun, 2009

@ Imsad
First, I wouldn’t go for a handshake, it comes off as too formal. Also, many girls don’t want to touch a strange man unless he’s incredibly handsome.
Second, you definitely don’t want a full typed-out conversation. Here’s why; there’s no way the conversation will play out like you have it on paper. Also, trying to recite a practiced conversation will make you sound like a robot when you’re actually speaking to the girl. And lastly, the best conversations with the greatest results are spontaneous. So forget about trying to memorize a conversation in order to use it on a girl. It’s just a bad idea.
Third, if she’s with a group of her friends just be sure to include them in the conversation. Every once in a while look to her friend and ask her a question.
Good luck!
Warren D.

30. Jun, 2009

Hi, this might not be your average advice and sort of has nothing to do with actually talking to girls, but ride my bike to places to meet girls, but when I get there, I’m sweaty and I smell bad which is obviously an immediate turn off. How do I stay good smelling when I reach my destination?
Mr.Confused

01. Jul, 2009

hey i’m really not sure you can help but ill ask anywho. so i have 3 friends all girls that i have been friends with for years…i have feelings for them all but i can’t decide which one i actually like. i also have a friend who i’ve known a few months but haven’t talked to a great bit until yesterday. i’m not completely sure which one i should ask out but i’ll give you the situation:
Girl1 just got out of an engadgement with a guy in another country, she is a year older than me and extremely fun
Girl2 i just started talking to am i think she likes me but i have trouble talking to her for more than an hour or so, we swim together alot and she can be fun when we get a conversation
girl3 i have known for years and we already dated once for about a month. she is really fun and easy to talk to but it was ackward when we were dating
Girl4 is country and fun, currently she is mad at me and has the idea that i stare at her body when she’s not looking,which is false. i know that she likes me but she is afraid to take it to the next level for fear it might hurt our friendship and be ackward
thanks for the help if you can
Kennedy

01. Jul, 2009

@ Warren D

I’ve been in your spot before. That can be tough. Try to pack a small stick of deodorant somewhere so you can apply a fresh coat once you’re done riding. Also, try wearing a white undershirt under whatever it is you have on – that will help absorb some of the sweat and the stink.
Also, some body spray like Axe or Old Spice can be handy in a pinch as well.
The trick is to mask the smell, because if riding your bike is your only option, then the sweat and the stink are going to be showing up regardless.
Kennedy

01. Jul, 2009

@ Mr. Confused

Quite the conundrum you have there. Instead of trying to tackle four problems, let’s try to tackle one. First, take a step back and ask yourself which one of those four girls you would like to date most right now. This is going to be the hardest part because it seems like they all have something to offer.
Once you have it narrowed down, then it’s just a matter of asking her out to do something like dinner or a live show or maybe even a fireworks show if you get figured out by this weekend. Spend some time to get to know this girl on a closer level.
Take it from someone with experience – trying to attract and date more than one girl at a time often leads to disastrous results, so take some time to find out which one would be right for you right now. Good luck man!
Michael

01. Jul, 2009

thank you and i understand completely and yes my situation suk, but to tell you the truth im glad im on dialysis i would have never met her, your advise helped a lot only because it gave me a little bit of strength and for that i realy needed.
Michael

01. Jul, 2009

hey
i realy need to find out if she has a boyfriend, so would it be a good idea or bad idea to write a note asking if she is seeing anyone? or ask one of her co-workers about her status? i known her for 2 years and liked her since i first laid eye on her. But it was’nt till half a year later that i relized that i realy realy like her

i have to say though im glad that AoG is helping everyone and i now relize that you have your own lives, and i appreiteate that you help others
thank you
Andrew

01. Jul, 2009

Hey how do you start a conversation over the phone. or how do you start a text message conversation.
Kennedy

03. Jul, 2009

@ Michael
The best way I’ve found is to ask others who know her. Just a simple, “Is she seeing anyone?” will usually suffice.
That will also sometimes kill two birds with one stone. Chances are the co-worker you asked will go back to her and tell her that you’re interested in her, so you’ve got that going for you as well.
I hope all goes well with you health-wise. Take care!
Kennedy

03. Jul, 2009

@ Andrew

Let’s focus on the phone conversation here. Text conversations can seem a bit insincere when you have the option to pick up the phone.
Phone conversations are a lot like regular conversations. Just start with some open ended questions to figure out what she’s up to, what her plans are for the weekend, etc. This should give you enough to kick-start your conversation. And if you feel like things are starting to drag on the phone a bit, end the call. No reason to let it get awkward for both you. Just say something like, “Alright, well I gotta get off here.” or, “Are you free this weekend to get together?”
Best of luck!
Michael

03. Jul, 2009

thanks alot kennedy ill have to try that, today i summoned up the courage to say hey your pretty and she smiled and said thanks and walk away for me thats a start and im proud of myself for atemting but im going to be a little sad cause she told me she has the next 12 days of cause of vaction………………………………………………………

lol what will i do now lol
Scotty

05. Jul, 2009

Alright, so there is this chick. I don’t really know her too well, but her dad is awesome. She’s the same age as me I think, at least she is in Driving School, and I am too – anyway, I was thinking of stopping by her house and just knocking on the door and say something like ” Hey, I’m Scotty, I remember you told me yesterday that your in Driving School. Do you have any pointers for me? “yes I do, blah blah blah (haha)” Well cool, maybe you could show me what your talking about sometime :]”
Sound Like a good start? Im not extremely desperate for an answer, just get to me when you get to me :d
Paul

05. Jul, 2009

Ok, I read through all the stuff up above here… and for some reason I’m still completely lost. I’ve had a few girlfriends over the years, but the sad thing is this: someone else always got us talking, and we were never actually talking to each other when nobody else was interjecting.

I’m a simple country boy, but have never been really good with girls. I’ve always been the silent type, and I’m sick to death of it. My life has lead to being a very boring life, with no hint of change. I’ve had a lot of beautiful girls looking at me a lot, in a flirty way, but I can’t ever figure out what to say. It’s like I just go blank every time.

Is there something I’m missing here? Cause I’m really getting tired of always messing something up…
Paul

05. Jul, 2009

Oh yeah, and another part of my problem is, I usually end up being pretty boring. I rarely ever can think of something random that would actually make a girl laugh. That’s one of my biggest downfalls. And I just can’t figure out how to get a girl to laugh… my jokes tend to be either cheesy or just plain dumb or very sarcastic, and never seem to work.
Trevor

05. Jul, 2009

Hey. I’m 16 and I need help. I’ve never talked to a girl before because Ive had braces since I started high school. Now I’m about to get them off for junior year and I have no clue how to get a girl. I’m way behind my friends on this matter and I don’t want this to ruin my last half of high school . So please help. Thanks
monster

05. Jul, 2009

Kk I really like this girl I have her number and stuff but I’m still stuck I think she got the impression that I like her but said she kind of checks someone but also doesn’t really want a boyfriend at the moment but I still really like her she has all the features I like about girls
She likes animals and I like animals
But where do I go from here and how do I get her to change her mind about not wanting a boyfriend ?
monster

05. Jul, 2009

I pray about it and some girls that I hang with that go my school say I have a nice body but my head ruins it because its big how can I fix that?
jason

06. Jul, 2009

hey, any ideas, on how to start a conversation on the phone, instead of “what are you doing this weekend etc…” i dont like to rush things, thanks!
Kennedy

06. Jul, 2009

@ Scotty

Showing up at her house – that’s a ballsy move! I applaud your confidence, and I am sure she will take notice.
Some girls MIGHT be put off a bit by that. Don’t let it get you down if she is. If you know her Dad, you can always ask (politely) if you could call her to ask for some driving pointers sometime. Of course he’ll know that’s just an excuse for you to talk to his daughter, but if he’s cool he won’t have a problem passing a phone number along.
Let us know how it goes. Good luck with that!
Kennedy

06. Jul, 2009

@ Paul

Hang in there man. I was the same way until well into college. I had no idea what to say to girls! You know what I did? I started watching others. Hanging out with friends, sitting in class, even watching the guys I worked with. I would just listen to how easily they could strike up a conversation, make a girl laugh, and get them to talk again later. Everyone has a friend (or friends) that are really comfortable around girls. Just watch how they do it, and then try to incorporate it into your own method.
It takes a little time and patience, but as these habits become more natural to you, meeting girls will come a lot easier.
Take it from me!
Kennedy

06. Jul, 2009

@ Trevor
First off, don’t let the fact that you went through high school without a girl get you down. If it happens, it happens. You’ve got years ahead of you to attract the ladies.
That being said, take a look at my post above. If your friends are so far ahead of you, take a moment to see how they do it. Listen to what they say to the girls, and then try it out yourself once you feel comfortable.
And who says you need to wait until the braces come off? Talking to girls now just shows you have the confidence that girls crave. And plus they will already know you once the braces do come off.
You can do it man. Good luck!
Kennedy

06. Jul, 2009

@ monster
Don’t worry about the big head. I have a GIANT head. Humongous. My buddies like to point out the fact that I have to stretch out my sunglasses to get them on my head.
So having a giant head doesn’t stop me from talking to girls, and it doesn’t stop them from talking to me.
As for the girlfriend thing, you can’t really make someone be something they don’t want to be. If you talk this girl into being your girlfriend, her heart may never be into it, which will really crush you in the end.
If you’re really in love with this girl, then you can wait. At some point she will either realize it’s time for a boyfriend or you’ll come across another girl that steals your heart and you’ll end up happy in the end anyway.
Love takes patience my friend, this scenario is no exception.
Kennedy

06. Jul, 2009

@ jason

Actually, you can ask about weekend plans without trying to set up a date. Or you can do it the reverse way and ask what she did LAST weekend. Maybe she mentions something that you’ve done before, and will give you something to talk about.
You can ask what her and her friends like to get into now that it’s summer, or if she shot fireworks on the 4th.
If you think asking about her future plans (weekend, summer, whatever) will make her uncomfortable, start by asking what she’s already done. That should keep you busy for your first couple of phone calls. And don’t forget: make sure to end the call when you feel it’s starting to drop off. No reason to have that awkward dead air before one of you decides it’s time to get off the phone…
monster

06. Jul, 2009

K I’m taking your advice and I’m putting her to the side till she changes her mind

However its this other girl I am interested in I met have her facebook and don’t really are her so I message her on facebook however I kind of rushed and asked for her number to soon now she stoped speaking I think how can I fix this mistake I wanted her to think that I’m a good person and get her to like me then ask her for her number again but I don’t know what to say.

Can you help me out

(I can send you the conversation we had if you want…)
Michael

06. Jul, 2009

ok its me again, i had a chance to ask her friend/co-worker if the nurse i like is seeing anyone and i froze to ask. funny thing is that this nurse her friend hasnt put me on since my first year of dialysis, i prayed the night b4 to have her be my nurse so i can ask her about my crush, and i guess god heared my prayer cause there she was. I must have been shocked cause i screwed up for not asking. i guess im shy to talking 2 all girls even the ones im not attrated to -.-
jason

07. Jul, 2009

thanks kennedy, but will she thinks that im a nuisance if i kept messaging her about her weekends, and starts avoiding me like what she did to another boy who has a crush on her , Thanks~
Bringmoreknives

07. Jul, 2009

Hey, read the tips, thought they were good. But how do I build the courage to talk to her? I can’t do it!!! What’s ure method?
Rob

07. Jul, 2009

Theres this girl i really like. and we talk on aim alot. but she usually just gives me one word answers like lol or ohh. any tips on how to start a better conversation ?
Michael

07. Jul, 2009

@ Michael
See, prayer does work!
You’ve got to build up some courage to talk with girls. Opportunities like what you are give don’t come around to often. You’ve got to be a man about this. You can’t live your life afraid and shy – no one is meant to live life that way. The only thing that’s holding you back is fear. You’ve got to become angry at your fear. You’ve got to tell your fear to “Back off, you’re not ruining my life anymore!” Once you do that, you’ll build up the courage to talk with girls. The more you talk with girls, the more courage you get. It’s like a snowball rolling down a hill effect, it just keeps getting bigger the longer it stays rolling.
But it all starts with the first step. And only you can take that step Michael. Are you man enough to do it? I believe you are.
Michael

07. Jul, 2009

@ BringMoreKnives
See my response to Michael, directly above this comment.
Michael

07. Jul, 2009

@ Rob
Read the entire post above and the huge comment thread. It’s full of tips and advice that answer your question. There’s no need to be lazy on this because the stuff you read can change your life!
Michael

07. Jul, 2009

@ Monster
I’d just give her some time. Don’t message her for about a week or two. After that time has past, just send her a quick message and simply ask, “How have you been?”

Good luck my man!

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