Comments for Advice on Girls http://adviceongirls.com Giving guys confidence and advice since 2006 Thu, 11 Mar 2010 05:18:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 Comment on How to start a conversation by Gunner http://adviceongirls.com/how-to-start-a-conversation/comment-page-22/#comment-3228 Gunner Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:10:22 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/?page_id=7#comment-3228 im a freshman and my girlfriends a sophmore.....when we hang out all we do is sit around and hold hands what should i do to start a conversation....or what should i say....and if were with another couple then what? thanks im a freshman and my girlfriends a sophmore…..when we hang out all we do is sit around and hold hands what should i do to start a conversation….or what should i say….and if were with another couple then what?

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]]> Comment on 10 ways to get rid of an irritating girlfriend by Taylor http://adviceongirls.com/2007/11/10-ways-to-get-rid-of-an-irritating-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-3227 Taylor Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:02:38 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/11/19/10-ways-to-get-rid-of-an-irritating-girlfriend/#comment-3227 Cameron - Even though you asked Michael this question, I just figure I'll answer it with a simple question back: What in the world are you doing still seeing/talking/interacting with in any way to your recently ex-girlfriend and letting her annoy you in such a way? You shouldn't have to feel bad about doing what's right for you. You should be happy! You won! Have you forgotten you'd dumped her for being annoying in the first place? See, now you're getting the worst end of the relationship stick in the form of a sorry, co-dependent ex. The best repellent for this is to show up next time you see her with a "new girl". Be all about this "new girl" and she'll never want to see you again. You have to kill the attraction she sees in you and she'll go down a different path so she can annoy some other guy all over again, and the attraction still remains because (let me guess) you still hang out exclusively, meaning you hang out with no other friends around. You need to stop that. If you can't find a "new girl" right away, just make sure you have someone else (at least one person) around like a mutual friend (if you HAVE to hang out with her) and that awkward, unreconciled-feeling that she still wants what she can no longer have won't be so constant and annoying when you hang out with her (for reasons I don't know, unless you're playing her into thinking you'll "cave in" and take her back so you can bang her once more, in which case, I say good to you, sir). Hope that helps. Cameron - Even though you asked Michael this question, I just figure I’ll answer it with a simple question back: What in the world are you doing still seeing/talking/interacting with in any way to your recently ex-girlfriend and letting her annoy you in such a way? You shouldn’t have to feel bad about doing what’s right for you. You should be happy! You won! Have you forgotten you’d dumped her for being annoying in the first place?
See, now you’re getting the worst end of the relationship stick in the form of a sorry, co-dependent ex. The best repellent for this is to show up next time you see her with a “new girl”. Be all about this “new girl” and she’ll never want to see you again. You have to kill the attraction she sees in you and she’ll go down a different path so she can annoy some other guy all over again, and the attraction still remains because (let me guess) you still hang out exclusively, meaning you hang out with no other friends around. You need to stop that.
If you can’t find a “new girl” right away, just make sure you have someone else (at least one person) around like a mutual friend (if you HAVE to hang out with her) and that awkward, unreconciled-feeling that she still wants what she can no longer have won’t be so constant and annoying when you hang out with her (for reasons I don’t know, unless you’re playing her into thinking you’ll “cave in” and take her back so you can bang her once more, in which case, I say good to you, sir). Hope that helps.

]]> Comment on 5 Common Mistakes Guys Make When Talking to Girls by Flip http://adviceongirls.com/2009/03/5-common-mistakes-guys-make-when-talking-to-girls/comment-page-3/#comment-3226 Flip Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:26:48 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/?p=174#comment-3226 I just found this website and read through the articles connected to this one. One more thing- thing of who you are, what you do, etc as your 'ammunition'. Still can't think of an opener, or follow on questions? Turn the tables around. Example- I've graduated college, I'm in the Army, I've been deployed to Iraq, and I've got a job. (Ok, so maybe walking up to her and saying "hey, are you an Iraq veteran?" probably isn't the greatest thing in the world to do). You can always ask things like "so where do you go to school? Where do you work at? Where do you live?" Those questions are great for me, personally, as I started my job four months ago, and there's a cute girl that works on the other side of the building. On top of that, I'm moving from where I live now (yup, that's another good topic..) to closer to my office. I've spent the last year taking care of my grandmother and since my family is moving her to Texas, I'm able to move forward with my life again, yadda yadda yadda. You get my point. Take who you are and what you do (even if you mop the floors at McDonald's, come up with funny anecdotes about it) and turn those into questions you want to ask her. Even if you can't think of ANYTHING to say and are stuck in an elevator with the girl you want to talk to you can say something like "even though we're only going down two floors, wouldn't it be nice to have some of that awesome music playing in the overhead speaker right now?" or "I know that phone is used for an emergency, but I've always wondered if you could order a pizza from it" Seriously...there are LIMITLESS possibilities to say to girls (or even just random strangers) in pretty much any situation. God speed, wayward travelers. I just found this website and read through the articles connected to this one.

One more thing- thing of who you are, what you do, etc as your ‘ammunition’. Still can’t think of an opener, or follow on questions? Turn the tables around. Example- I’ve graduated college, I’m in the Army, I’ve been deployed to Iraq, and I’ve got a job. (Ok, so maybe walking up to her and saying “hey, are you an Iraq veteran?” probably isn’t the greatest thing in the world to do). You can always ask things like “so where do you go to school? Where do you work at? Where do you live?”

Those questions are great for me, personally, as I started my job four months ago, and there’s a cute girl that works on the other side of the building. On top of that, I’m moving from where I live now (yup, that’s another good topic..) to closer to my office. I’ve spent the last year taking care of my grandmother and since my family is moving her to Texas, I’m able to move forward with my life again, yadda yadda yadda.

You get my point. Take who you are and what you do (even if you mop the floors at McDonald’s, come up with funny anecdotes about it) and turn those into questions you want to ask her.

Even if you can’t think of ANYTHING to say and are stuck in an elevator with the girl you want to talk to you can say something like “even though we’re only going down two floors, wouldn’t it be nice to have some of that awesome music playing in the overhead speaker right now?” or “I know that phone is used for an emergency, but I’ve always wondered if you could order a pizza from it”

Seriously…there are LIMITLESS possibilities to say to girls (or even just random strangers) in pretty much any situation.

God speed, wayward travelers.

]]> Comment on How to get a girl interested in you by Cameron http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/comment-page-5/#comment-3225 Cameron Wed, 10 Mar 2010 05:07:04 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-3225 Any advice on how to get the girl you really like and care about to break up with her boyfriend?.................... :( btw : she also likes me. but she just won't end it with her freaking boyfriend! Any advice on how to get the girl you really like and care about to break up with her boyfriend?……………….. :( btw : she also likes me. but she just won’t end it with her freaking boyfriend!

]]> Comment on How to get a girl interested in you by Kennedy http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/comment-page-5/#comment-3224 Kennedy Wed, 10 Mar 2010 01:28:02 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-3224 @ Ms Lose the long distance girl if you think you'd rather have someone else closer to you. It's not going to work otherwise. Trust me on that one. @ Ms
Lose the long distance girl if you think you’d rather have someone else closer to you. It’s not going to work otherwise. Trust me on that one.

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