Example questions to ask girls
Posted on 21. Apr, 2009 by Kennedy in How to Talk to Girls
Remember, first impressions are everything. So it’s important to have an open-ended question ready to make YOUR first impression when you see a girl you’re attracted to.
Here are some examples you can use for common situations we have all found ourselves in at one point or another:
At school
- What do you think of this class?
- How well are you doing this semester?
- How much have you completed of this assignment?
- What are your plans for the weekend?
At the gym
- How often do you make it into the gym each week?
- What is your workout routine?
- What is your diet like?
At work
- How do I fill out this report properly?
- Where are some cool places to hang out nearby?
- What are you doing after work tonight?
At a wedding
- How do you know the bride/groom?
- Where is a place we can all go after the reception?
- Where would you want to go on your honeymoon?
For more examples, visit our most popular post on starting a conversation.
We’d like to hear from you. Ask questions or suggest your recommendations for open-ended questions with the rest of the AoG community in the comments below. Well, don’t hesitate. Get to it!

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nikolas
20. Feb, 2011
ive known this really nice girl for a while. we r pretty good friends and i think she may like me a bit. i like her too and i want to ask her out but im afraid that if she says no that it would get really awkward and our freindship destroyed. im 15. any advice?????
marc
27. Feb, 2011
so i just transfered schools i transfered from a county college to a 4 year school i dont know alot of ppl and my roommate moved out cuz he was sick, so im having trouble meeting ppl, im a shy guy and i dont really blend in with alot of the ppl i listen to mostly rock music but i dont dress like an emo kid or a preppy kid i wear skater clothes mostly and its mostly preppy kids here, i dont have alot of confidence also i have gone to a few frat partys and stuff though and was wondering if i could get some advice and some good conversation starting questions i could use at partys and stuff and any hintsi could use to see if a girl is into me thanks marc
athos
23. Mar, 2011
@ marc
thats the best thing about open-ended questions, they can be about anything. you could ask anything from if she knows anyone at the party to what she thinks of the music. the most important thing is to be confident and just to be yourself. with the tips to see if she’s into you, you need someone else to do that but i think its a matter of common sense, she’ll be more engaged in conversation with you is probably the only thing I can pick out. Hope this helps
lonely...
29. Mar, 2011
ok, so theres this girl ive been spending alot of time with and in the past we were barely friends and were friends now we are in the school play i have tried to talk to her and ask her out but i dont want to ruin our friendship, so i just made jokes and stuff but i dont know if she likes me, so i dont know what to say. What do I do? Should i ask her out, or take it slow?
Ethan
11. Apr, 2011
@lonely
I’m in the pretty much same situation and I decided to take it slow to find out if she likes me or not
Eddie
25. Apr, 2011
it seems like we all have the same problem now adays, we really like this girl and we dont know if she likes us yet it seems like it, and we dont want to ruin the friendship, im in that exact situation right now
Mickel
21. May, 2011
soo today we got our year books and when we were all about to leave for the buses this gorgous senior walks up to me and asks to sign my year book, so of course i said yes and i signed hers “hey i dont reall know you but your really cute!” so when we left i read what she put. “to the sexiest freshman, i dont know you but have a good summer(:” so where do i take it from now since shes older?
Anonymous drug dealer
22. May, 2011
There’s this girl that lives in the same street as me and i like her and we’ve never really talked to each other except that sometimes she would look at me and i would look at her, so recently i added her on facebook when she accepted the friend request i found out that she’s gone to america,so when she accepts the request she starts talking to me n we talk for an hour, the same night we talk again then the following day when wen we talk she starts complementing me and starts hinting about her liking me and she talks like we’ve known each other for a long time when in reality i just met her a day ago n now i think she might be getting a lil 2 serious 2 fast.So i like her n i’m getting a vibe that she likes me, but now i’m just nervous as to what 2 do wen she gets back the next month, bcoz really i won’t have that much confidence.btw i’m 13 n she’s 12(i know right)
Ethan
05. Jul, 2011
One are I would add is POOL, I am there alot but I never know how 2 get a conversation going
anony
15. Jul, 2011
@mickel
if you’re in seventh, just wait till you’re a freshman. if you’re in sixth, don’t even try it.
@anondrugdealer
when she comes back, wait two to three days and make your relationship a little stronger. then ask her out; it doesn’t hurt to make your relationship stronger.
vishi
23. Jul, 2011
do u know me ,i cant recognize
Joe
02. Aug, 2011
So I’m going to be a Senior in high school, and there’s this girl in my grade who most boys will say is the hottest girl in the school. I never thought that I was her type, even though I’m not bad with girls at all. We’ve made out a few times at parties, but idk where to go with it. I don’t really want to date her, but I dont want to stop hooking up either because it’s hard to let something go that is so envied by everyone else. To other people, she doesnt refer to us as a “thing” but she obviously kind of does if we keep hooking up. Basically, what I want is a way to make her want me, and admit that she likes me. How can I play hard to get without her losing interest? Thanks
Authentic Online Dating Tips For Men
05. Jan, 2012
Joe- props on hooking up with the hottest girl in school. Here’s a dating tip for men out there and for you: Maybe you should make yourself more of a challenge. Make out with a few other girls. There’s nothing wrong in doing this… after all, you’re not “dating.” She may get pissed off– and if she does, that’s proof that she wants you. Then see where things goes. Also, other girls probably want to make out with you because they see her as competition.