Example questions to ask girls

Example questions to ask girls

Posted on 21. Apr, 2009 by Kennedy in How to Talk to Girls

Remember, first impressions are everything. So it’s important to have an open-ended question ready to make YOUR first impression when you see a girl you’re attracted to.

Here are some examples you can use for common situations we have all found ourselves in at one point or another:

At school

  • What do you think of this class?
  • How well are you doing this semester?
  • How much have you completed of this assignment?
  • What are your plans for the weekend?

At the gym

  • How often do you make it into the gym each week?
  • What is your workout routine?
  • What is your diet like?

At work

  • How do I fill out this report properly?
  • Where are some cool places to hang out nearby?
  • What are you doing after work tonight?

At a wedding

  • How do you know the bride/groom?
  • Where is a place we can all go after the reception?
  • Where would you want to go on your honeymoon?

For more examples, visit our most popular post on starting a conversation.

We’d like to hear from you. Ask questions or suggest your recommendations for open-ended questions with the rest of the AoG community in the comments below. Well, don’t hesitate. Get to it!

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31 Responses to “Example questions to ask girls”

  1. Kyle

    21. Apr, 2009

    Sweet! These help a lot.

  2. Fail

    09. Jul, 2009

    You probably get slapped in the face alot.

  3. Michael

    09. Jul, 2009

    @ Fail
    Fail is referring to a comment that I deleted off this post. He is right, the guy would have been slapped. :)

  4. confusion

    29. Jul, 2009

    i have a girl who i thinks real cute in a class of mine, and i dont know how to just start talking to her. wouldnt it be weird sayin, so how do you like this class?.

  5. Dan

    29. Jul, 2009

    My biggest problem isn’t necessarily starting conversations. Instead, its keeping them going. I’m not the best conversationalist, so when I ask an open ended question like, “What do you think of this class?” and the girl answers with, “Its good” or “I like it.” I’m kinda stumped and don’t know where to go from there (and eventually get off the topic of class).

    If the girl gives me something to work with, I’m fine. But if not, I got nothing. Any tips?

  6. Michael

    29. Jul, 2009

    @ Confusion
    I don’t think that would be weird at all. That’s a good way to start a conversation; don’t let your fear tell you otherwise.
    Best of luck man!

  7. Michael

    29. Jul, 2009

    @ Dan
    That’s a common problem. The trick is to develop your conversational prowess over time. One great way to do that is to use talking props. Talking props are items of interest that you can comment on. These can be unique things & environments in your surrounding area including (but not limited to) her clothing, your clothing, a book, someone’s car, etc. You get the idea.
    To find out more about talking props, read our post “How to start a conversation.” Use the search box up above to find it.

  8. Nick

    12. Aug, 2009

    Dude…I’m sorry but if you went up to most of the girls in my town and asked half of these questions, the only response you would get was a stupid look. Going up to someone you dont know and asking them what they would like to do on their honeymoon or what their diet is like? Come on. Thats just creepy.

  9. Wisconsinbigdog

    12. Aug, 2009

    Any were besides the gym yeah it would be creepy, but the gym is the place were people talk about those kinds of things, I wouldn’t mind someone asking me that at all but that’s just me…if you woulnt want to talk about that why go to the gym? A lot of girls would see it as you think they are in good shape, am I wrong?

  10. Wisconsinbigdog

    12. Aug, 2009

    It’s all about location location location, using where you are as a talking point.

  11. tabby719

    08. Sep, 2009

    i realy like a girl and iv known her for years but we never talk. i want to know what i should do because last time i told somebody how i felt they put me down. gently i might add but it still hurts ya know.
    any advice please?

    P.s im no good at talking to girls face to face as i go all red and just cant think of owt to say at all.

  12. Kennedy

    08. Sep, 2009

    @Nick

    You’d be surprised at what works and what doesn’t. Trust me on that. :)

  13. Kennedy

    08. Sep, 2009

    @ tabby719

    Let’s keep it simple here at first. Instead of asking her out or telling her you like her, just start with the conversation. What is something you guys have in common? Do you go to the same school? Do you hang out at similar places? Are you in the same classes? Let’s start here and work our way up, how does that sound? Find out something about her that you can start a conversation with, and come back to us. We’ll help you get started from there!

  14. tabby719

    09. Sep, 2009

    thanks kenedy ill get bak to you wen i try.
    thanks agen.

  15. skinnykid

    15. Sep, 2009

    i recently joined a college for my graduation. i find a lot of cool girls there of different courses. any suggestions on how to talk to them in an impressing way???

  16. Michael

    18. Sep, 2009

    @ Skinny Kid
    The best way to make an impression on a girl is to be confident in yourself. Girls like guys who are confident. That means you shouldn’t be shy and sit in the corner of the class.
    Talk to the girls by confidently introducing yourself. Then make them laugh by showing your great sense of humor.
    Just remember confidence is the key!
    Good luck.

  17. tabby719

    19. Sep, 2009

    hi thanks the advice worked nd we have our first date on friday.
    great help thanks guys.

  18. lomonop

    20. Sep, 2009

    hi i’m in a bit of a mess. theres this girl that knows i like her a lot and two days ago asked if i love her and i do realy and i sed this to her altho she she likes me but isnt sure about love now im meeting her tomorow and im scared but dunt no why. also i have no idea wot to do or say. please help.

  19. skinnykid

    21. Sep, 2009

    thank u so much michael

  20. Kennedy

    21. Sep, 2009

    @tabby719

    That’s fantastic news! Congratulations - I hope it goes well!

  21. Kennedy

    21. Sep, 2009

    @lomonop
    Dude, take a deep breath! The word ‘love’ gets thrown around a lot - especially when we’re younger. When you see her, you can act just like you did before she dropped the big question on you. There’s nothing wrong with telling her how you feel - especially if she came right out and asked. Just be yourself the next time you see her, and everything else will fall into place. Just remember to breathe!

  22. lomonop

    25. Sep, 2009

    thanx kenedy i dunt think ill forget that bit haha.

  23. Why me

    08. Oct, 2009

    Ok this one is confusing, but I will try and explain. I’m in a class (military) and have been for about 8 months. In this class is a girl that i really like, but she has never shown any interest, at all….. ever. So I wrote it off as a lost cause. Hoever, about 3 weeks ago I got moved to a new class and now she’s all over me. She went from saying a total of 2 or 3 words to me all year to having lunch off base with me, cornering me akwardly in halls and classrooms when no one else is around, and various other confusing things for me to try and understand. I would loveit if it wern’t for the simple fact that she is married! And I am, unfortunatly, and actually genuinly good guy, so my morals don’t allow me to tell her how I feel or to respond to these “advances” as I see them, because she is already taken. However, shes only 19 and already getting married, to a total jerk by the by, and he lives like 2000 miles away. But all of that aside, I still can’t do anything bu hold my head in my hands. HELP!

  24. Why Me

    08. Oct, 2009

    Edit: I meant to say she is engaged, she isn’t married yet

  25. jp

    29. Oct, 2009

    i like a girl in my english class and i can’t seem to be able talk to her, my freinds say she likes me, so that makes me even more nervous, so i have no idea what to do,please help

  26. Charle

    11. Nov, 2009

    Agh! I like a girl in my drawing class. She hasn’t started talking to me until near the end of the semester. She’s very pretty and simple minded, plus very talented in drawing. The only problem is she talks to me sometimes or sometimes notices me. We walk back generally on the same path together due to the fact we both live in the same dorm building after drawing class. I intentionally leave class simultaneously to her somewhat? to try to strike up a conversation with her. Problems are:
    1.I can’t keep a conversation going with her.
    2.She’s destined to pick a different class next semester and I will see her less.
    3.She talks to me very little sometimes. Either I should start the conversation or she should?
    So I need advice. Any type of direction I should go in?
    I did think of other questions I could ask her, but I don’t want to give off that creepy stalker vibe, due to the fact tons of guys in my class hit on her because, again, she’s very pretty.

  27. Greg

    07. Dec, 2009

    hey, i have already met this girl and i think she likes me yeh, i got her phone number and her facebook, but i dont wanna phone her cos that seams really wierd soo i have been thinking for ages on what to text/IM andthe only things i can think of are well not brill lol any help? :)

  28. Confused

    16. Dec, 2009

    If your dating a girl that wants to move to the next stage from making out how would you go about doing that without coming off as a creep?its my first real relationship and i realy like this girl

  29. Cluless

    05. Feb, 2010

    There’s this girl that I know, and we’re both in this musical. She’s everything that I like in a woman, and it’s so obvious that I like her that practically everyone I know is telling me to ask her out! It’s so obvious that when the director of the musical told me to pick a partner, the girl from the other pair of dancers suggested her, saying we were “perfect for eachother!”. I agreed, elated on the inside but indiffernt on the outside. Even the female diirector suggested that something might “develop”. I think it might be too obvious because now whenever she sees me she says “hi” with a wave and a smile. I don’t know what to do! Did I also mention that my hand lives at her hip during our dance? (thank goodness for jeans!) I’m really nervous that she’s just being nice to me as a charity case. HELP!

  30. Kennedy

    08. Feb, 2010

    @ Cluless

    Since you two are spending a lot of time together, why don’t you get to know her a little first? Just ask her some questions about herself - what she likes to do, where she hangs out on the weekend, those kinds of things. These are good because you get to know her a little bit and will inevitably share a few things with her about yourself as well. Getting to know her will open up your options a bit when you DO ask her out. Is there a movie coming out that she wants to see? Offer to take her. Does she like taking her dog to the park on the weekends? Bring yours along and you two can meet up. Does she like coffee? Tell her you’ll buy her some Starbucks one evening after school while you two go over your lines for the musical.
    You have the advantage here in that you two are around each other enough that you can take the time to get to know the girl before you make the big leap to asking her out. Remember, just take a deep breath and go for it!

  31. Cameron

    27. Feb, 2010

    Just Saying: Kennedy, you are a great guy and give great advice :) I sound gay there lol but You help a lot of guys out there (including myself) and I just wanted to thank you fro your generous help :)

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