3 hobbies girls find attractive
Posted on 09. Mar, 2009 by Michael in Flirting Tips, Increase Your Confidence
Are you afraid that girls just don’t find you interesting? Think you need to increase you appeal? Well don’t fret because here are 3 hobbies that girls find attractive. By taking up just one of these hobbies, you’re bound to increase the number of girls that find you interesting.
1. Playing an instrument
Without a doubt one of the most attractive things you can learn is to play an instrument. But not any instrument will do. I don’t know many girls that will swoon over a man that plays the flute, do you? No you need a sexy instrument. Think guitar, sax or piano.
Now becoming competent at playing these instruments won’t come overnight. It will take a lot of practice in order to learn your first song. But the results will be well worth the effort you put into it. Not only will you be able to amuse yourself, you’ll have girls falling at your feet when you play the latest hit song.
2. Participate in sports
It’s a fact of nature. Girls typically love guys who excel at sports. It’s because girls like guys who are competitive and can win. It’s also because most guys who play sports have a fit body. Girls like fit bodies too.
So get out there and find a sport you like. It could be football, basketball or ultimate frisbee. Just make sure it’s a sport that you love to play. Because the more passionate you are about the sport, the better you will become at playing it. The better you become, the more you’ll stand out to the girls.
3. Taking a risk
Girls like guys who put it on the line. Now you don’t need to become the next Evel Knievel or Johnny Knoxville. That’s not the type of risk I’m talking about. I’m talking about taking up rock climbing, bmx biking or skydiving. These are activities that get your blood pumping. It also gets the girls hearts pumping too!
I recommend rock climbing. That’s the hobby I took up. I met so many girls because of it too. Girls would ask me what I liked to do. I would tell them that I rock climbed. Instantly they were interested and would ask me to take them sometime.
If it worked for me, there’s no reason it won’t work for you.
What do you think of these hobbies? Do you currently do them? If so, please share with us your thoughts.
This article was inspired by my buddy Jack over at eHarmony Advice. I liked it so much that I decided to adapt it for the Advice On Girls audience.
Shy to Talk, a fan of AdviceOnGirls.com
Lily
19. Mar, 2011
yes playing an instrument or a sport is attractive but really just be yourself. i know that’s cliched but girls like guys who are real and honest about who they are. you don’t have to show off or anything, just talk about things you guys are both interesting thing, and if sparks start to fly just go with it
Lily
19. Mar, 2011
*interested in
sorry (:
Flautistman
23. Apr, 2011
Flute is a sexy instrument.. Atleast the Indian Bamboo Flute or the Bansuri is!..
mark
18. May, 2011
does playing the drums do the trick?
Noah
04. Jun, 2011
Well I love to play football. It is my favorit sport and I have abs. I am very strong and girls love my abs and how strong I am. It is all because of this website that girls love me. The only thing that I have to say is thanks!!
katelyn
22. Jul, 2011
skateboarding is hot 2:D
Taylor
20. Aug, 2011
Hi. I`m one of those guys commonly refered as “death boy” because of the music I listen to. I`m a really nice guy, and most people would never suspect that I listen to metal. Ever since one of my crushes moved away to lexington 2 years ago. I`ve been in love with her ever since 6th grade, but she never liked me. Now i`m entering 9th grade, and there`s this new girl who lives near me, and she goes to the same school, but we are`nt in any classes together, but she seems to radiate this aura telling me about her. I`d love to talk to her, but i`m worried about my reputation. You see, she and her mother moved in with a family who once knew me, and they know that I listen to metal. For those of you who don`t know much about metal, if you google heavy metal, you will see some scantily clad women. I respect women and I also don`t listen to horrible music in the metal genre,(screamo) but everyone seems to think that I`m violent because of the music I listen to. This new girl seems to be nice and smart, and possibly funny, but also seems to be one of those people who don`t like metal. I, being both shy and afraid that she will be scared of me because of the music I listen to, have not talked to her yet, and my only move was to leave her a secret admrier letter. I`m trying to earn her freindship, but how would I start the conversation? I`ve taken a look at your “how to start a conversation article and none if those questions really fit me. As much as I love her, i`m not going to lie by pretending i`m interestead in a subject that i`m really not, or ask her a question about her class because i`m not in them and that would look to desperate. I really don`t want to let her leave like the last one did. Please help
Morgan
20. Aug, 2011
Well these qualities are attractive, but only if theyre genuine. If you do these things because you saw them on some website, then the girl will be able to tell. Girls can find any hobby attractive, but what makes it attractive is if your passionate about it. My boyfriend is on math team in school, and I love how he’s so passionate about number theory. A girl thinks its cool when you’re devoted to something, it doesn’t have to be one of the three mentioned here.
Bihung
08. May, 2012
Hey,
i <3 ed the trick . . . . /