3 hobbies girls find attractive

Posted on 09. Mar, 2009 by Michael in Flirting Tips, Increase Your Confidence

Are you afraid that girls just don’t find you interesting? Think you need to increase you appeal? Well don’t fret because here are 3 hobbies that girls find attractive. By taking up just one of these hobbies, you’re bound to increase the number of girls that find you interesting.

1. Playing an instrument

Without a doubt one of the most attractive things you can learn is to play an instrument. But not any instrument will do. I don’t know many girls that will swoon over a man that plays the flute, do you? No you need a sexy instrument. Think guitar, sax or piano.

Now becoming competent at playing these instruments won’t come overnight. It will take a lot of practice in order to learn your first song. But the results will be well worth the effort you put into it. Not only will you be able to amuse yourself, you’ll have girls falling at your feet when you play the latest hit song.

2. Participate in sports

It’s a fact of nature. Girls typically love guys who excel at sports. It’s because girls like guys who are competitive and can win. It’s also because most guys who play sports have a fit body. Girls like fit bodies too.

So get out there and find a sport you like. It could be football, basketball or ultimate frisbee. Just make sure it’s a sport that you love to play. Because the more passionate you are about the sport, the better you will become at playing it. The better you become, the more you’ll stand out to the girls.

3. Taking a risk

Girls like guys who put it on the line. Now you don’t need to become the next Evel Knievel or Johnny Knoxville. That’s not the type of risk I’m talking about. I’m talking about taking up rock climbing, bmx biking or skydiving. These are activities that get your blood pumping. It also gets the girls hearts pumping too!

I recommend rock climbing. That’s the hobby I took up. I met so many girls because of it too. Girls would ask me what I liked to do. I would tell them that I rock climbed. Instantly they were interested and would ask me to take them sometime.

If it worked for me, there’s no reason it won’t work for you.

What do you think of these hobbies? Do you currently do them? If so, please share with us your thoughts.

This article was inspired by my buddy Jack over at eHarmony Advice. I liked it so much that I decided to adapt it for the Advice On Girls audience.

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87 Responses to “3 hobbies girls find attractive”

seduisant80

13. Aug, 2009

@Wisconsinbigdog

“People Watching” as we call it, where you go to the mall or park/busy place, grab a seat and “watch” people and how they interact with the world. It makes for awesome dates as well as good ideas for songs.
Ed

13. Aug, 2009

I play bass, and yes, they love it. Something as simple as that man, and I noticed the mob of chicks but didn’t know what it was until I read this. Yes, very true, Its like magic.
Wisconsinbigdog

13. Aug, 2009

I think that’s how I’m going to spend my Saturdays now…I used to play video games, but I don’t anymore and I have been kind of bored on Saturdays. So I’ve got a few questions, I have written small drum pieces before but I always needed a drumset right there so I could test it out…I need some way to visualize it…is it alright for me to bring a laptop to put some of the stuff into a drum emulator or would a laptop turn girls off? Does anyone else agree this site needs a dedicated forums area or chat for people to post their own topics to be put up for discussion? If you guys need someone to moderat the forums I would be willing, I have plenty of free time and I could use something like that to ocupy it…until I get a girlfriend
Michael

13. Aug, 2009

Thanks for all the great feedback guys! Your comments really help. Kennedy and I are looking at ways to grow the site. The only thing is that we’re lacking time and manpower. Hey, we have full-time day jobs and ladies to take care of.
But again thanks for your feedback. Just know we value it and are looking into implementing some of your ideas.
Wisconsinbigdog

14. Aug, 2009

As long as I’m being heard I’m happy…the site really is great as it is right now, and I understand that it takes time as does everything. If you’re looking for help to maintain the website hit me up on my email, I’m not looking to be an official contributor but if you need tech support, I’ve got a good handle on html and java languages…thanks for taking time out of your lives for proving us with the help.
Ante

17. Aug, 2009

I’m training breakdance, and I’m telling you, everyone finds it cool
Michael

17. Aug, 2009

Glad to hear the site helps guys!

@ Ante
I agree breakdancing is awesome.
Daniel Cleveland

18. Aug, 2009

To give my two cents, I think hobbies can be a positive thing. My hobby is more on the technology side, and I went into sound for my school’s plays. There are some pretty nice looking girls that I work with. My point is, if you have any hobby, try and look for a club in school or a club that meets occasionally at a place. Knowing what you are talking about really improves your standing with girls.
Michael

18. Aug, 2009

@ Daniel Cleveland
Thanks for sharing your thoughts bro. Those are definitely good points.
rudy

21. Aug, 2009

if you sing and sing well it’s just as good as playing instruments sing her a pretty song and she will melt
Michael

24. Aug, 2009

@ Rudy
That’s excellent advice! Thanks for sharing.
alias

28. Aug, 2009

i play the trumpet and trombone and im not sure if this would work for reeling in girls. haven’t really tried as im at a music high school and its not anything special if you play an instrument.

i do however do rock climbing and i need to know how i can best play this up to get a date with my crush

any advice appreciated:)
T.J

01. Sep, 2009

Chicks dig it if u play percussion mainly drumkit but anythings good. Plus all the piano players i know are eaither gay or massive wankers
Michael

01. Sep, 2009

Good suggestions guys. Keep ‘em coming!
jesse

12. Oct, 2009

I take kickboxing but should i mention it i dont mean like:
make-out with me i box!!
u know just mention it
rue

13. Oct, 2009

Okay well im a freshman but….
I play guitar,drums,piano,sax,and clarinet
I am on the JV crew(rowing) team and guitar Club
I skateboard , BMX , and do plays
Do you think these are good combinations cuz im stuck on this one girl who continues to hurt me for a year now ( 3 time cheated , 3 times played out , and i was supposed to be her first but something happened and lets just say she isnt a virgin and i am) I seriously need help on this
Kennedy

13. Oct, 2009

@ jesse

If you’re talking to a girl and the subject of things you like to do comes up, you can mention that you kickbox. I wouldn’t just throw it out there like, “Hi, I’m Jesse, and I kickbox!”
You can even offer to show her a few moves when she asks you about it!
Kennedy

13. Oct, 2009

@ rue

That sounds like a mess, man. I would get away from that girl. You participate in enough activities that you are bound to eventually meet someone who really appreciates how talented you are. You can do it!
keelee anne

01. Nov, 2009

thanks some of ur comments help im gonna try out 4 basketball/netball swimming or dancing swimmings cool danciing is good if u know how 2 do it and netball and basketball i could do in side and outside of school so thanks
Matt

12. Nov, 2009

I’m the best at basketball and the fastest how does that help
katy

15. Nov, 2009

i’m a girl haha and i think guys that play guitar are soooooo hot.
Charle

16. Nov, 2009

Alright, not every guy playing the piano is a fag. I actually tried to learn some piano to impress the ladies. If this is invalid towards the appeal for the ladies, I will stop. Otherwise, I’ll be playing that piano all over the place!
Danni

02. Dec, 2009

I’m a chic an I think that playin guitar is HOT but so is piano IF u no how to do it! Streetdancin is deffo hot LOL ezpecially freestyle! The sax is kinda lame jus so yanno. Oh, an the whole bit about sports is half true but we don’t like it wen guys are addicted LOL thts jus annoyin wen u talkin to a guy an he jus keeps bringin up football!!! Hope I helped pls comment back xx
Jonathan

05. Dec, 2009

I play the piano and I can say, it’s really good a getting girls to come over. A tip I’ve learned: Try to see what songs a girl your interested in likes. Then, work on learning that song. Then if there’s ever a piano (or whatever other instrument) around when she is also around start casually playing the song, odds are she’ll come over to see who it is. Let and/or invite her to stand and/or sit next to you. Maybe even show her to how play a part of the song. It works fantastically.
Thomas

22. Dec, 2009

I play guitar and I’m good at sports. Doesn’t seem to have an effect at all. I don’t THINK I’m physically repulsive, I hope not anyway.
Michael

05. Jan, 2010

@Thomas dude I agree, I rock climb, fence, am an excellent track sprinter and soccer player, i play basketball, spend lots of time in the gym, was student government (Athletics Chair) and am working on getting a paratrooping course, and I dont have girls mobbing me… what am I doing wrong
liam

17. Jan, 2010

i play violin, does that qualify?
liam

17. Jan, 2010

i also play piano, guitar and bass
liam

17. Jan, 2010

is ballroom dancing good?
Dylan

18. Jan, 2010

I’ve got a awesome hair dew girls can’t keep there paws off me and I play guitar bass and a couple orchestral instruments like piano and trumpet. And I wrestle I do baseball and soccer and I’m on all the varsity teams. But for some reason I can’t get a gf. Don’t mean to brag but I’m pretty hot. And I’m pretty smart
Kennedy

24. Jan, 2010

@ liam

I wish I knew how to ballroom dance! A lot of girls are really into that once they try it. Like I mentioned above, for every hobby, there’s some girl that’s interested in that hobby. Keep your eyes open at your ballroom dancing classes, at the music store, or other places you like to frequent out of school. You might just find some cool gal that’s really into a lot of the things you are!
Zachary

30. Jan, 2010

I play the sax but only in the high school band any ay to make it seam cooler to the ladies
Kennedy

31. Jan, 2010

@ Zachary

Awesome! I played the tenor sax in Middle School! We played all the normal nerdy stuff in band practice. One day, I told my Grandpa that we were playing a bunch of marching stuff, so he pulled out a couple of records he had of Boots Randolph - a famous sax player from back in his day. He showed me that playing stuff outside the normal marching band thing was actually pretty cool, and it motivated me to go out and find some sheet music for some more contemporary stuff. And wouldn’t you know it, the couple of times anyone asked to here me play, I actually had something pretty cool (and sometimes recognizable) to play for them!
Jordan

01. Feb, 2010

Hey guys just wanted to say that the site is great. I used to be terrible with talking to girls but after reading a few of your articles I tried out talking to some girls I met around and it seemed to come on naturally and after building my confidence up I started talking more to this girl I’d been chasing for a year, and wouldnt you know it we’ve been together for a few months now and things are going great. Thanks for all the help guys!
Michael

04. Feb, 2010

@ Jordan
Thanks for the kind words! We’re glad to help.

Good luck out there man!
Raynes

26. Feb, 2010

Never been that big on sports. Just play basketball casually. I can sing quite reasonably but can’t play a guitar yet. I have a crazy side that awes people when I suggest the craziest stuff…dunno if that qualifies for risk-taker. I draw cartoons pretty well and that catches the attention of everybody I meet. But, do u think this stuff wud be enough or do I have to up my game a little bit ?
Ricardo

27. Feb, 2010

I used to draw manga a few years ago (3 years) and I was pretty good drawing but I left because of college. I never used my drawings to get attention of girls, I was too shy on that time, but I used to hear good comments about them. I would like to know if it would be good enough (i haven’t lost my skills :P).. or maybe I should have another hobby.

Do you think drawing manga qualify??