When you see a cute girl, act quickly!

Posted on 05. Aug, 2007 by in Flirting Tips, How to Talk to Girls

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If you happen to see a girl that interests you, whether you’re at the mall, gym, or park, make sure you talk to her within the first minute you see her. Now, you might argue that you need more time to figure out what to say to her. You’d be wrong; never hesitate. In reality you’re stalling. The longer you stall, the more you will become afraid to talk to her. The more you become afraid, the less likely you will are to talk to her.

It makes sense if you think about it. Think how many times you’ve seen a girl you wanted to talk to but then told yourself “I’ll talk to her in a little bit.” You then take some time to either think about what you’re going to say or to psych yourself up. But what usually happens is you end up psyching yourself out (you become afraid) or you lose sight of her. Hey, it’s happened to me a couple dozen times!

If you need help talking to the girl, here’s a list of things to say to her.

15 Responses to “When you see a cute girl, act quickly!”

  1. aaron

    10. Nov, 2007

    i still dont know how to talk to gurls

  2. aaron

    10. Nov, 2007

    what a good start off line

  3. Danny

    16. Sep, 2008

    Hey Micheal
    First of all i think what you’re doing is Great

    Well i have a very unique situation,
    How do i start this
    Well I’m attractive 21 yrs old male.I just get really nervous talking to girls in public.When i see an attractive woman i get so nervous that, i either walk away or don’t say anything at all..I have a huge fear of embarassing myself.I just don’t know how to start a convo with them in public

    For example today on campus i was sitting reading a book.A very attractive girl came and sat next to me.I know she was looking at me,but i just did’nt had the courage to say a word..So she left then came Back to the same exact spot.It was very ovious she wanted to talk to me,but yet again i did’nt say a word.So she just left for good :(

    Ok’but here is the twist, i go out with alot of girls and i’m very succesful in getting laid.I meet these girls thru friends and myspace.and i talk to them over the phone and etc and feel comfortable
    So i have a comfort level when we go out!
    But my problem is talking to a complete stranger face to face in public..I’m very shy when it comes to that.

    what can i do??

    thanks for you reply…I know it was kind of long,but i wanted to fill you in on the whole story

  4. bossimple

    22. Sep, 2008

    hi,
    i am bossimple i am from ivory coast but studying in india i have a problem with indian girls.the problem is there are too reserved so i find difficult to tlk to her. i want some advices from you reply me quickly thanks

  5. Ali

    05. Jan, 2009

    Hi,
    I like all your advice quite nice and i want to know if u can help me
    u c i am 15 i go 2 an all boys school and if i see i girl i like
    on the bus or generally anywhere. I dont know what to say because
    I’m scared they may think I’m just random
    Hope you can help

    Ali

  6. Jon

    05. May, 2009

    So true, Iv NEVER talked to a girl I like, I’m gonna start.
    Jon

  7. Michael

    05. May, 2009

    That’s the spirit Jon!

  8. aNon-M uS

    15. Jun, 2009

    Hi
    I’m 13 and i really like this girl. The problem is her brother is my best friend who I’ve known ever since we were toddlers and I’m worried he’ll get mad at me if I date his sister. Could I please have some advice on getting her to notice me?breaking the news to my friend?

  9. Kennedy

    16. Jun, 2009

    @ aNon-M uS

    As a big brother to 3 sisters, I can tell you to tread lightly. If you want her to notice you, then hanging around her brother as often as possible is a start. It gives you many opportunities to talk to her and get to know each other.
    As for the brother, it’s best to just tell him your feelings for his sister. Coming from you is better than him finding out from other friends or from his sister.
    Good luck man! If you have any other questions, don’t hesitate to let us know!

  10. Mike

    12. Oct, 2009

    well, never thought i would look at a site like this but glad i did. I’ve always been shy and have no clue why. if a girl starts talking to me i can hold my own. but me walking up to a girl that i really want to talk to doesn’t work. matter of fact i don’t do it. after reading this i realized i do physc myself out and need to just buck up and do it. im a firefighter and have always been told that i’m attractive and have a fit body. i’m just shy……..i needed this site to help me out a little…will post again in a couple weeks with what happends.

  11. Kennedy

    13. Oct, 2009

    @ Mike

    Thanks for posting! We’ve all been in that spot before, so if you have any questions or need any help, feel free to ask anything on here and we’ll see what we can do to get you started. Good luck man!

  12. one of the guys

    04. Feb, 2010

    Do you think this info is universal? cuz I’m one of the guys and would like to know if the rules apply with everyone or does it have to be male?

  13. Mark

    20. Sep, 2010

    I’ve got a girlfriend but I don’t know when she will want to kiss me please help

  14. Charle

    10. Oct, 2010

    My big problem is after I see a really cute girl, I psych myself out immediately. I have to literally keep telling myself to strike first or never strike at all. And so far, it’s worked, but I’m bad at the whole flirting game. Any tips or tricks would be helpful!

  15. Qono vuor

    16. May, 2011

    Howabout going up and saying “Hi. I don’t know how to talk to girls”? That seems funny ;x

    She’d probably start a conversation because walking away then seems kinda rude :x … I should try this ^_^

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