It’s not just about getting a date, it’s about life!

Posted on 07. Aug, 2007 by Michael in How to Talk to Girls

afraid to talk to girls Some guys are so afraid about interacting with girls, they begin to make excuses for their fear. Some say things like, “There’s plenty of time for me to find someone.” Others say, “I’m happy being by myself; I don’t need a girl.” The truth is that humans are designed to be social creatures. Sure, you don’t have to have a girlfriend to be happy. But, in order to be happy, you must socialize with other people – including girls!

Overcoming your fear of talking to girls isn’t simply about getting a date. It’s about being able to function, properly, in the world. It’s about having a truly content life, one were you can look back at your past and not have any regrets!

I don’t know about you but when I was scared to talk to girls I had plenty of regrets. Now that I have overcome my fear, I don’t have any. What about you? Come join me in a discussion and let’s get rid of any fears you have!

3 Responses to “It’s not just about getting a date, it’s about life!”

abhishek

08. Aug, 2007

ya,i also feel confused at times ..,whether i should have a girlfriend or not.,actually a girl rebuked about me about my flirty nature and since then i have stopped talking to girls on a whole but now i want to get back to my interactive n open nature with girls,i am missing the excitement one experiences talking with girls, so hope i get back my life going ,am i doing this rite??? suggest sumthng i want to get over that freaky girls rebukes about me…
Michael

08. Aug, 2007

Hey man,

Sorry about that. I know it can be hard when a girl rebukes you. Try this:

The next time you approach a girl, focus on getting to know her. Don’t focus so much on trying to get a date. Remember, when you start talking to a girl, you are evaluating her too. You should be trying to find out if you would be interested in dating her. A good rule of thumb is to not flirt heavily at all during that first meeting.

And one more thing, definitely refrain from touching her. Touching should only be initiated by the girl. Touching a girl before she initiates it can come off as weird and unattractive.

Good luck man. When you get back out there, you’ll have a blast!
Tim

10. Dec, 2009

Hey first off i just wanna say i found this site very helpful. But i need some advice im not sure if this is the right place to ask this but…
Over the past couple of months ive become good friends with this girl i like. We talk the entire period during lunch i can hold a conversation with her, i wanna ask her out but she intimidates me. I think she plays hard to get because shes always telling me about how some guy is all over or something. Is she trying to make me jelous or what?