How to get a girl interested in you
Posted on 21. Aug, 2007 by Michael in Dating Tips, Flirting Tips
Many girls want what they can’t have. This is one of the major truth’s when it comes to flirting with girls. Want proof? Think about all the times that you liked a girl, hung on her every word, was there whenever she needed you – and you became her friend, not a boyfriend, just a friend. Now think of that same girl and her boyfriend. Remember how you noticed that he didn’t give her the kind of attention you did? Well, that was probably one of the reasons she was with him. She saw value in his attention because it was rare; well rarer than yours anyway.
The next time you find yourself in that “we’re just friends” situation, remember that girls want what they can’t have. So, you shouldn’t always make yourself available for her. While you’re at it, stop paying so much attention to her too.
Here’s an example:
If she calls, answer the phone but cut her off about a minute into the call and say you’ve got plans and have to go. Don’t give her an explanation. Just say you’ve got to go but you’ll call her later and be nice about it. Oh, by later I mean two days later not two hours later.
By giving her less attention you, you make yourself more appealing. Why? Because your attention is a rarity; it’s supply and demand. Gold is worth so much because it’s rare. The same goes for you and your attention.
Shy to Talk, a fan of AdviceOnGirls.com
James
22. May, 2011
Hey guys so me and this one girl dated two years ago. She told me she like me and all and we dated. We broke up. And then over the coarse of these two years we’ve been talking and its been kindaa flirty and stuff but no legit stuff. I am totally in love with this girl and I think she still has feelings for me. What should I do?!!?!?!
Austin D.
01. Jun, 2011
Well James that same thing happened to me and I still Don’t know what to do. Help!!!!????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
A Girl
03. Jun, 2011
I am a girl. And this is only partly true.
Do not be ultra clingy!! But do not break up our calls, and then call us two days later!! Do that and we will get mad!!
Hatim
11. Jun, 2011
i have tried all the best ways to attract a gal !!..but i fail… like i have asked open ended questions and the gal repied… but wats next…??..then wat to do…??..wat should i ask to cont… the conversation..???
Hatim
11. Jun, 2011
i have tried all the best ways to attract a gal !!..but i fail… like i have asked open ended questions and the gal repied… but wats next…??..then wat to do…??..wat should i ask to cont… the conversation..??? kindly reply.
Gunner
14. Jun, 2011
hey every one PLEASE HELP ME!!! there is this girl that i like…n she is SUPER pretty iv only sceen her a hand full of times and we dont talk alot…but she will look at me and smile…we have talked alittle bit…but next time see her im going to just kinda get to know her…but idk what to do…with what was said above i dont wana be to “clingy” but idk…i want to give her my nimber the next time i see her… but then can i lose her cuz im showing intrest…IDK ANY MORE…ps. also…her and my mom were talking in the restroom at church (dont ask me why i dont know why lol) from what my mom told me…when they were talking in the water closet her mom said to my mom…that this girl(the one i like) “pointed me out”…like in a good why…i think i HOPE!!! can someone please help me…im despret i dont know what to do
Fabian
18. Jun, 2011
best thing to do is start a simple conversation the next time you see her, say hi to her, it wont be weird because your not a complete stranger, then give your number and if she calls or texts have small conversations here and there, but dont blow up her phone and text her more than she texts you.
Jake
20. Jun, 2011
The absolute best way of winning a girl is showing her you can protect her. Absolutley the best way ever, it works!
ella
20. Jun, 2011
Girls love guys who are caring and respectful, like im not having sex till after marrige, you gotta respect that! but girls want guys who would protect them they find that super hot! and don’t ever not call for two days for nothing, and wait to touch her ass, she may not want it!
jayjay
21. Jun, 2011
i like this girl and i told her i like her but im trying to grab her attention so she likes me back..and we have some conversations thats are great but sometimes its just like we donno wat to talk about and it gets sorta awkward how could i make her not get bored in our conversationss
James
28. Jun, 2011
Hey guys could you help me out here? I was at a party on friday night and me and a few mates and this girl I like went back to mine afterwards. My mates all left before she did and she ended up staying at mine till 6pm the next day, I couldn’t really read the signals she was giving me so I didn’t end up making a move. I also see her at work every now and again. I have her number but she never texts me, and I text her every now and again, like every few days, and she always replied. I just don’t wanna come across too clingy to begin with as I’ve had bad experiences in the past. It is her birthday on Friday, I am considering dropping a card and some chocolate round hers then, not really sure if she likes me at all though…
Steven
07. Jul, 2011
I am not the most popular guy in my school but I am pretty popular among those popular people. I am a different race and my family owns a restaurant so that makes me pretty famous among my small town. That’s pretty much how everybody knows me so the girls don’t flow easily and I only had two girlfriends my whole 13 year life and even my kiss was not very well. I had to ask around. But I kept on flirting with girls I’m ok at it but I just don’t know how to start them to really like me. And when I do like a girl everybody finds out and they tell them and I eventually get rejected. Then I met this one girl that I really enjoy talking to every night on facebook but she likes a guy from her youth group and he lives 2 hours away from her! Could anybody help?
Jack
11. Jul, 2011
The only solution to everybody who’s stuck with their problem is :”I Love You” is all it takes
matt
19. Jul, 2011
ok i like like this girl and she is going out with a guy but how do i get her to like me and not him i have liked her for 4 years now and every time i get ready to tell her she walks a way or goes offline help!!!!!!!!
robyn and dana
20. Jul, 2011
dont call and say u have to go. that will just piss us off. other then that its surprisingly true.
Kate
22. Jul, 2011
oke…
i gotta ive it 2 ya.
we DO want what we cant have.
i cant help it:D
mike
28. Jul, 2011
hey guys im really interested in this girl right now but i dont know if she likes me back can i have some tips from a real girl
Cody
02. Aug, 2011
Hi guys. i have a problem. ive known a girl all throughout middle school and were close friends and well be starting highschool this august…but i like her soooooo much!.
Theres just one problem….Im kinda the class clown always doing crazy stuff and shes really sophisticated and mature and i want to know how to gt her even the slightest bit interested. I try to be normal around her but im such a super klutz i always mess it up! please help!
zeke
15. Dec, 2011
Hi my name is zeke i am intrested in the girl Nytia how doe i get her intrested in me?
Jordan
14. Mar, 2012
hi my name is jordan and i been wondering about how can i make this this girl i like in middle school to laugh, please help
Tim
16. May, 2012
So there is this girl i like. Her brother is on my soccer team but we dont really talk. I was talking to her a little and her brother would comment on it. IDK if i should do anything about liking her or just let it go. Help please?