Comments on: How to get a girl interested in you http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/ Because all guys need some help Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:01:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Con http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-525 Con Thu, 11 Dec 2008 03:00:31 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-525 This is a very informative sight and I'm glad I found it! But I have a problem I dont know if its because i give too much attention or something but I have had two girls break up with me because they said I'm too nice. Whats up with that?????? Is it good to be a bad guy? and if it is how??? This is a very informative sight and I’m glad I found it! But I have a problem I dont know if its because i give too much attention or something but I have had two girls break up with me because they said I’m too nice. Whats up with that?????? Is it good to be a bad guy? and if it is how???

]]> By: Chris http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-483 Chris Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:07:17 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-483 @ Barry. A friend is someone that is available. Seems like you show her affection a little too often, back off a little bit, she's not playing you she just loses interest when you pay too much attention to her. When you're ready to leave her alone, and she talks to you that's not you being played, that's her wanting more attention. Attention that you're not going to give her, don't be rude about it, never be rude just don't pay too much attention to her. The best advice that you'll ever hear is "treat her like a fat chick." All the girls reading this will gasp and so no, but they're wrong. Treat her like a fat chick. Talk to her, make her laugh, have a small conversation but you're not holding on to every word she says and you're confident because she's just a fat chick. @ Barry. A friend is someone that is available. Seems like you show her affection a little too often, back off a little bit, she’s not playing you she just loses interest when you pay too much attention to her. When you’re ready to leave her alone, and she talks to you that’s not you being played, that’s her wanting more attention. Attention that you’re not going to give her, don’t be rude about it, never be rude just don’t pay too much attention to her. The best advice that you’ll ever hear is “treat her like a fat chick.” All the girls reading this will gasp and so no, but they’re wrong. Treat her like a fat chick. Talk to her, make her laugh, have a small conversation but you’re not holding on to every word she says and you’re confident because she’s just a fat chick.

]]> By: Chris http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-482 Chris Wed, 29 Oct 2008 07:55:12 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-482 For all of the girls that say "not all girls are the same." You're right, they're not everyone has a different personality, but you're wrong in thinking that some girls should have undivided attention. I don't care if a girl says she won't date a guy because he doesn't pay enough attention to her. It's not true. Girls want attention, and the more rare it is coming from you, the more they'll want it and the more they'll want you. Yes all girls. There is a fine line between ingoring a girl and not giving her your undivided attention. Don't mistake this for being a jerk, it's just making her want what she can't have. Don't take advise from girls about how to get them, trust me on this one. All girls are going to say that all girls are different and they just want a nice guy that pays attention to them, I have yet to meet a girl that will go out with you after hanging on to their every word and being a "really nice guy." For all of the girls that say “not all girls are the same.” You’re right, they’re not everyone has a different personality, but you’re wrong in thinking that some girls should have undivided attention. I don’t care if a girl says she won’t date a guy because he doesn’t pay enough attention to her. It’s not true. Girls want attention, and the more rare it is coming from you, the more they’ll want it and the more they’ll want you. Yes all girls. There is a fine line between ingoring a girl and not giving her your undivided attention. Don’t mistake this for being a jerk, it’s just making her want what she can’t have. Don’t take advise from girls about how to get them, trust me on this one. All girls are going to say that all girls are different and they just want a nice guy that pays attention to them, I have yet to meet a girl that will go out with you after hanging on to their every word and being a “really nice guy.”

]]> By: barry http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-477 barry Fri, 24 Oct 2008 00:15:52 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-477 i am so confused right now!!! well heres the deal i really like this girl but i cant tell if she likes me back when i show affection to her it backfires an when im ready to leave her alone an move on she always says something like "remeber you said so-and-so" feels like i am being played but she isnt that type of girl an whats worse is she got out of a big relationship an she has alot of guy friends prety sure most of them are trying to get with her but tahts only a small part of it this what ever it is, is really stressing me out i am so confused right now!!! well heres the deal i really like this girl but i cant tell if she likes me back when i show affection to her it backfires an when im ready to leave her alone an move on she always says something like “remeber you said so-and-so” feels like i am being played but she isnt that type of girl an whats worse is she got out of a big relationship an she has alot of guy friends prety sure most of them are trying to get with her but tahts only a small part of it this what ever it is, is really stressing me out

]]> By: Leroy http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-396 Leroy Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:49:54 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-396 Giana, Thats horrible!! I am sorry I have three sisters and nothin like that work unless you are certain where your going after the "sup" part and that seems to be the biggest problem for most guys. It's the "what-to-say-next-syndrome" It blows but what are you gonna do? I just normally follow up with some thing direct. If the girl doesn't want to do something with me I back off, get more familiar with her and then disappear. Or, at least don't come around much for a couple weeks then show up randomly somewhere she is usually at and explain that you were really busy and wish that you could have spent more time hangin out with her but you will have to play catch up later on tonight or tomorrow as you just "ran into" some free time. Cheers and Happy Hunting! Giana, Thats horrible!! I am sorry I have three sisters and nothin like that work unless you are certain where your going after the “sup” part and that seems to be the biggest problem for most guys. It’s the “what-to-say-next-syndrome” It blows but what are you gonna do? I just normally follow up with some thing direct. If the girl doesn’t want to do something with me I back off, get more familiar with her and then disappear. Or, at least don’t come around much for a couple weeks then show up randomly somewhere she is usually at and explain that you were really busy and wish that you could have spent more time hangin out with her but you will have to play catch up later on tonight or tomorrow as you just “ran into” some free time.

Cheers and Happy Hunting!

]]> By: Michael http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-383 Michael Sat, 28 Jun 2008 02:54:40 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-383 @ Kunal Dev Man, I have no idea why you didn't want to talk with her. That's a mistake. The fact that she agreed to dance with you is a good indicator that she's at least somewhat interested. My advice is to go up to her, and say something like, "Hey, I had a good time dancing with you the other night. Sorry, I didn't say much. Guess I was too busy concentrating on not making a fool of myself on the dance floor." Hopefully she'll think that's funny and the "door" will be opened up a little bit. Good luck! @ Kunal Dev

Man, I have no idea why you didn’t want to talk with her. That’s a mistake. The fact that she agreed to dance with you is a good indicator that she’s at least somewhat interested.

My advice is to go up to her, and say something like, “Hey, I had a good time dancing with you the other night. Sorry, I didn’t say much. Guess I was too busy concentrating on not making a fool of myself on the dance floor.”

Hopefully she’ll think that’s funny and the “door” will be opened up a little bit.

Good luck!

]]> By: kunal dev http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-382 kunal dev Fri, 27 Jun 2008 23:08:22 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-382 hey michael on the day of my school farewell i approached a girl asked her to dance she even agreed but then i dint no wat to talk to her....finally she went bck with hr frnzz.help me !!! hey michael
on the day of my school farewell i approached a girl asked her to dance she even agreed but then i dint no wat to talk to her….finally she went bck with hr frnzz.help me !!!

]]> By: Michael http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-335 Michael Wed, 04 Jun 2008 03:18:10 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-335 @ Kaela Well said! Listen to her guys. She's smart. ...A lot of girls have been finding this post lately. Interesting... @ Kaela

Well said! Listen to her guys. She’s smart.

…A lot of girls have been finding this post lately. Interesting…

]]> By: Kaela http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-326 Kaela Tue, 03 Jun 2008 21:24:07 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-326 I'm a girl too (I accidentally found this site), And I have A LOT of good advice on this. First of, don't be obnoxious or rude, and definitely don't be aggressive and assertive. Be kind and let the girl you like have some space, find out what makes her laugh (most girls love funny guys), and let her hear what she wants to hear. But girls really like it when they know you like them because you keep dropping hints. I’m a girl too (I accidentally found this site), And I have A LOT of good advice on this. First of, don’t be obnoxious or rude, and definitely don’t be aggressive and assertive. Be kind and let the girl you like have some space, find out what makes her laugh (most girls love funny guys), and let her hear what she wants to hear. But girls really like it when they know you like them because you keep dropping hints.

]]> By: Michael http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-299 Michael Thu, 22 May 2008 00:32:57 +0000 http://adviceongirls.com/2007/08/21/how-to-get-a-girl-interested-in-you/#comment-299 There are many good points in all your comments! Thanks for sharing! Anyone else have anymore suggestions? There are many good points in all your comments!

Thanks for sharing!

Anyone else have anymore suggestions?

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