05 Aug
Posted by Michael as How to talk to girls, flirting tips

If you happen to see a girl that interests you, whether you’re at the mall, gym, or park, make sure you talk to her within the first minute you see her. Now, you might argue that you need more time to figure out what to say to her. You’d be wrong; never hesitate. In reality you’re stalling. The longer you stall, the more you will become afraid to talk to her. The more you become afraid, the less likely you will are to talk to her.
It makes sense if you think about it. Think how many times you’ve seen a girl you wanted to talk to but then told yourself “I’ll talk to her in a little bit.” You then take some time to either think about what you’re going to say or to psych yourself up. But what usually happens is you end up psyching yourself out (you become afraid) or you lose sight of her. Hey, it’s happened to me a couple dozen times!
If you need help talking to the girl, here’s a list of things to say to her.
5 Responses
aaron
November 10th, 2007 at 10:07 pm
1i still dont know how to talk to gurls
aaron
November 10th, 2007 at 10:10 pm
2what a good start off line
Danny
September 16th, 2008 at 12:20 am
3Hey Micheal
First of all i think what you’re doing is Great
Well i have a very unique situation,
How do i start this
Well I’m attractive 21 yrs old male.I just get really nervous talking to girls in public.When i see an attractive woman i get so nervous that, i either walk away or don’t say anything at all..I have a huge fear of embarassing myself.I just don’t know how to start a convo with them in public
For example today on campus i was sitting reading a book.A very attractive girl came and sat next to me.I know she was looking at me,but i just did’nt had the courage to say a word..So she left then came Back to the same exact spot.It was very ovious she wanted to talk to me,but yet again i did’nt say a word.So she just left for good
Ok’but here is the twist, i go out with alot of girls and i’m very succesful in getting laid.I meet these girls thru friends and myspace.and i talk to them over the phone and etc and feel comfortable
So i have a comfort level when we go out!
But my problem is talking to a complete stranger face to face in public..I’m very shy when it comes to that.
what can i do??
thanks for you reply…I know it was kind of long,but i wanted to fill you in on the whole story
bossimple
September 22nd, 2008 at 5:27 pm
4hi,
i am bossimple i am from ivory coast but studying in india i have a problem with indian girls.the problem is there are too reserved so i find difficult to tlk to her. i want some advices from you reply me quickly thanks
Ali
January 5th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
5Hi,
I like all your advice quite nice and i want to know if u can help me
u c i am 15 i go 2 an all boys school and if i see i girl i like
on the bus or generally anywhere. I dont know what to say because
I’m scared they may think I’m just random
Hope you can help
Ali
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